Become a Better Musician with Constructive Criticism
No one really likes to be told they are doing something the wrong way. Hearing harsh negative words can hurt your ego and discourage you from trying again. Constructive criticism, however, can help you become a better musician and learner.
Constructive criticism is when someone offers valid and well-reasoned opinions about your music or performance, usually encompassing both positive and negative comments, in a friendly manner rather than an oppositional one, to help improve your outcome.
Throughout your music career, you will hear plenty of criticism, whether constructive, or as we like to call it, destructive criticism, which is not intended to improve you, but to harm you. The way to grow and improve through the use of criticism is to determine what is meant to help, and what is said out of hatred or anger, and to only focus on the comments that were meant to be helpful. The way that you process criticism will determine the rate at which you grow as an artist. Constructive criticism directs you to a way of changing your approach so that you can become more secure, readied and more consistent in your singing.
Many people do not know how to process criticism. Check out these tips to help you understand these types of comments and improve yourself through them.
1. It’s not personal
When receiving constructive criticism remember that it is to help you, not offend you. Getting defensive only puts up a roadblock to honing your craft. People who give you genuine, helpful, constructive criticism are not trying to hurt your feelings. It's not personal, so don't let it be.
2. Record your practice sessions
The brain is a funny thing and has the power to trick us into hearing what it wants. After receiving thoughtful recommendations, take advantage of your smartphone and record yourself while singing. Even if you don’t agree with the criticism you’ve been given, you’re sure to hear something else you can improve upon. Be your own critic.
3. Ask for clarification
Sometimes, a well-meaning friend, family member, or even voice teacher may give you some unhelpful criticism, whether it be describing something as “weird”, saying they don’t like a particular song choice, or remarking that they simply didn’t like the way it sounded. These comments aren’t really helpful, but by asking for clarification, you can help to understand what they meant. Simply ask them to explain exactly where you went wrong to determine how you can fix it.
4. Practice in front of a mirror
Seeing ourselves in a vulnerable position oftentimes proves to be a difficult but necessary task in the world of a performer. Don't be a stranger to your habits. Observe yourself in the mirror while practicing, be sure to take note of things that you dislike, and create a plan to improve. Remember to notice what you like about your style and voice, as well. Speaking kind words to yourself can go a long way.
At the end of the day, we are our own toughest critics. Remember to be kind to yourself.